There are a lot of different
factors that influence and ultimately determine an individual’s behavior. These
factors can range from general moral standards on a personal level to more
calculated reasons like trying to impress someone and anywhere in between. What
most people don’t realize is that other people can tell if one’s behavior is
honestly genuine or completely fake. These differences in behavior are part of
what contributes to a person’s reputation.
For the most part I can say that I
have been content with the reputations I have held so far in life. Although I
don’t really care about reputations and what people really think about other’s
behavior, I do think it is best to associate one’s self with a respectable
society for a variety of reasons. One reputation that came to mind as I was
reading the prompt is my reputation that I had in high school. According to my
mom, I was raised differently than some other kids that I grew up with. A big
part of this is she explained that she wanted me to hold myself to a higher
standard than what I see from my peers around me. I was never really sure what
she met by this, but I did notice some differences in my behavior as compared
to other’s behavior. I would argue that I try to carry a decent character in
most scenarios in life. I think this has contributed to the majority of my
reputations being what I would expect. Back to my overall reputation in
highscool, I would that I was seen as a hard working kid that also liked to
socialize. I went to a high school of 400 students where my grandpa had
previously been the principal and my mom was a current teacher in the district.
I remember at the time thinking that I also had a family reputation that I had
to uphold. From a teacher’s perspective, I was at the top of my classes while
getting straight A’s and never really complained like some others. I wasn’t
really friends with everyone in the school, but I tried to treat everyone with
respect and have a good time. I think that my reputation helped lead to a
variety of accomplishments in high school including being the captain of my
football team as well as the president of the school’s National Honor Society.
I didn’t really get in trouble a lot, which I think I can give credit to the
fear of my parents as well as the sense of “being in trouble.” However, as
important as my success in school was to me, I also really cared about the
social aspects. I went to a lot of parties on the weekends and even hosted a
few of my own. I remember some fellow students thinking this wasn’t a good move
considering my positions, so I could probably equate that towards a negative reputation
with some students. All in all, I would argue that my reputation has evolved
over the years as I have gotten older as well as gained more experiences.
In this scenario as well as the
majority of other areas that I could have a reputation, I would say that I have
never “cashed it in” for some sort of immediate gain. I understand why some
people might be tempted to do this, especially if the amount of gain is of
significant worth or even worth than the reputation itself. However, I think
that one’s behavior should be for what they honestly stand for, and therefore
their reputation should be genuine. I realize that this is an ideal that myself
and others might strive for, but I have also met a variety of different people
that could care less about their reputation.